How To Involve Children And Teenagers In A Funeral Service

How to Involve Children and Teenagers in a Funeral Service

Death impacts families of all ages. Involving children and teenagers in a funeral helps them feel included and helps with healing. Andrew Kennedy Funerals works with families in Kensington, Bexley North and the Eastern Suburbs to involve younger members thoughtfully.

Explaining in age-appropriate language

Children need honest, simple explanations. Saying “Grandma died and will not come back” is clearer than vague phrases. Teenagers may side-step emotions. We provide guidance on how to have open conversations about loss.

Meaningful roles

Involving younger family members gives them presence. They might place flowers, choose a photo, read a message or release balloons. These roles help them feel part of the farewell. We help families make these roles safe and comfortable.

Recognising emotional patterns

Children may express grief in behaviour rather than words. They might act younger, withdraw or ask many questions. Teenagers may appear indifferent or isolate themselves. Understanding helps parents and carers support them. We provide resources and referrals when required.

Maintaining routines

Routine helps children feel secure. School, sport, favourite activities all play part in recovery. Families in the Eastern Suburbs rely on local schools and support networks. We highlight the importance of structure and routine for younger family members.

Remembrance activities for youngsters

Memorial bracelets, photo books, memory jars or planting trees all provide comfort. Involving children in activities gives them ownership of their grief journey. We help families select age-appropriate options.

Ongoing care and connection

Loss does not simply end when a funeral finishes. Children and teenagers may continue to process grief. We remain available to provide support, referrals and guidance throughout the months ahead.